Masculinity and Feminism in Perspective:
After a refreshing service that Sunday, I rushed back to my room to prepare a typical student's rice (without meat of course, who meet epp? Hehehehe).
Just as I switched off the burner, ready to munch my hastily prepared delicacy, a heavy knock on the door interrupted the activity. It couldn't had been Bro.C (my usual Sunday visitor, always on time...hehehe), his usual gentle knock left me confused on the identity of the person behind the door.
I was bewildered as I opened the door, two hefty men each with AK 47 riffle gun. I immediately felt a movement in my body, from my head, through my chest down to my legs (a fainting procedure...). I came back to 'life' when one of them flashed his police ID card.
I followed them (like a sheep to the slaughter) alongside three other occupants of the hostel located at Okpuno, Awka. As I saw their van with the inscription: Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS), I Wondered what my crime was.
As we proceeded to an undisclosed station, I noticed a white Mercedes Benz 240 C-class trailing our path and direction. I just guessed he would be the complainant. But my worry remains 'what did we do'? The police refused to answer us and the only guy that attempted resisting arrest bleed till we got to the Station. The rest of us had to learn from example (SARS police no dey smile).
Fast forward to the Station: at Area command police station, they collected our items (phones, wrist watches, clothes etc) we were left with only boxers. Without any interrogation, we were asked to enter the cell, a monster in me was erupted as I heard the word 'cell' (a previous despicable cell experience with a very serious unfortunate situation replayed on my head).
I demanded to see the Divisional Police Officer (D.P.O) at once. When they blatantly refused, I started speaking grammar....shouting and lamenting until a higher officer appeared, I later learnt that he was the District Crime Officer (D.C.O) of the station. I introduced myself, and went ahead and narrated the situation that culminated to our predicament. I added some other ingredients to the narrative in order to engage his emotions ( I didn't lie ooh...lol). But the first thing I demanded from the D.C.O was to tell us our crime.
He consulted the team that arrested us, and came up thus:
That we stole a pair of leather slippers belonging to a man who was said to have visited his girlfriend in our hostel. True to my thoughts, the slippers belonged to the man who drove the white Benz C class.
Chai, I was weakened by that unserious accusation.
The said 'leather slippers' was valued at #10,000 (about #50,000 in today's Buhari economy...lol)
My narrative to the D.C.O only secured us waiver from being cast into the cell. He latter disappeared into thin air, leaving no trace of his whereabouts.
The police insist that we pay for the slippers and an additional #5000 per head for bail.(highest level of injustice. Chai, life can be hard sometimes).
A friend and mentor later showed up and engaged them in war of words for the next two hours. Thanks to him, we were released at about 7.00pm that Sunday.
In retrospect, I analyzed thus:
1. We were over 40 occupants in the hostel of which 80% were female. But when SARS came to arrest suspects, they went for guys (Men)
2. Apart from the fact that I seriously believed that a 'jealous' girl stole the 'leather slippers. I wondered the rationale behind the polices' decision to arrest guys whose room were very far from the 'host' room at which the slippers was stolen from.
3. Why would crime always be associated to male gender?
Last week, I wrote a small article on the increasing negative influence of female feminists' (with the aid of their social media influence) on our girls.
In case you missed it, read up by clicking on the link below
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1924427617573588&id=100000191047882
The post generated different reactions both on the comment section and on my inbox. The average opinion points that feminism is all about 'equality' and fairness' to our women. Some went ahead to enumerate the misdoings and unfair treatment meted on our ladies, depriving them some certain rights and privileges.
I quite agree with them, I sympathize with them and I vehemently sermonize 'fairness' to all genders.
Masculinity comes with its challenges too. Against the popular believe that 'its a mans world' I wish to point out that its not all rosy for 'men'.
A teenage boy will sacrifice his strength to protect his sisters and sustain various forms of injury. If he fails to do that, the society deems him a boy girl
Daily, police arrest innocent 'men' for the crime they didn't commit. Their only crime is 'cos God created them 'male'.
Alot of them have even given their lives to it. You can imagine how many men that have been incarcerated due to indiscriminate arrest made on the streets in Nigeria just because they belong to that 'endangered' specie .
In as much as I don't want to over bloat the men narrative, I just want to emphasis that each gender comes with its challenges. Our society sometimes aren't always fair to either of the gender, we should always learn to contain the ill treatment the society presents while we anticipate a corrective measure to be effected.
African culture is rich with biased gender sentiments, no doubt.
‘Gender equity may not be in the mind of our ancestors when they structured our society, no doubt.
But, they may have gotten a clue from the Bible: when God spoke to Eve
. . . and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee (Gen.3:16b)
Thank you.
#myopinion
© Ezekute, I.A
After a refreshing service that Sunday, I rushed back to my room to prepare a typical student's rice (without meat of course, who meet epp? Hehehehe).
Just as I switched off the burner, ready to munch my hastily prepared delicacy, a heavy knock on the door interrupted the activity. It couldn't had been Bro.C (my usual Sunday visitor, always on time...hehehe), his usual gentle knock left me confused on the identity of the person behind the door.
I was bewildered as I opened the door, two hefty men each with AK 47 riffle gun. I immediately felt a movement in my body, from my head, through my chest down to my legs (a fainting procedure...). I came back to 'life' when one of them flashed his police ID card.
I followed them (like a sheep to the slaughter) alongside three other occupants of the hostel located at Okpuno, Awka. As I saw their van with the inscription: Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS), I Wondered what my crime was.
As we proceeded to an undisclosed station, I noticed a white Mercedes Benz 240 C-class trailing our path and direction. I just guessed he would be the complainant. But my worry remains 'what did we do'? The police refused to answer us and the only guy that attempted resisting arrest bleed till we got to the Station. The rest of us had to learn from example (SARS police no dey smile).
Fast forward to the Station: at Area command police station, they collected our items (phones, wrist watches, clothes etc) we were left with only boxers. Without any interrogation, we were asked to enter the cell, a monster in me was erupted as I heard the word 'cell' (a previous despicable cell experience with a very serious unfortunate situation replayed on my head).
I demanded to see the Divisional Police Officer (D.P.O) at once. When they blatantly refused, I started speaking grammar....shouting and lamenting until a higher officer appeared, I later learnt that he was the District Crime Officer (D.C.O) of the station. I introduced myself, and went ahead and narrated the situation that culminated to our predicament. I added some other ingredients to the narrative in order to engage his emotions ( I didn't lie ooh...lol). But the first thing I demanded from the D.C.O was to tell us our crime.
He consulted the team that arrested us, and came up thus:
That we stole a pair of leather slippers belonging to a man who was said to have visited his girlfriend in our hostel. True to my thoughts, the slippers belonged to the man who drove the white Benz C class.
Chai, I was weakened by that unserious accusation.
The said 'leather slippers' was valued at #10,000 (about #50,000 in today's Buhari economy...lol)
My narrative to the D.C.O only secured us waiver from being cast into the cell. He latter disappeared into thin air, leaving no trace of his whereabouts.
The police insist that we pay for the slippers and an additional #5000 per head for bail.(highest level of injustice. Chai, life can be hard sometimes).
A friend and mentor later showed up and engaged them in war of words for the next two hours. Thanks to him, we were released at about 7.00pm that Sunday.
In retrospect, I analyzed thus:
1. We were over 40 occupants in the hostel of which 80% were female. But when SARS came to arrest suspects, they went for guys (Men)
2. Apart from the fact that I seriously believed that a 'jealous' girl stole the 'leather slippers. I wondered the rationale behind the polices' decision to arrest guys whose room were very far from the 'host' room at which the slippers was stolen from.
3. Why would crime always be associated to male gender?
Last week, I wrote a small article on the increasing negative influence of female feminists' (with the aid of their social media influence) on our girls.
In case you missed it, read up by clicking on the link below
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1924427617573588&id=100000191047882
The post generated different reactions both on the comment section and on my inbox. The average opinion points that feminism is all about 'equality' and fairness' to our women. Some went ahead to enumerate the misdoings and unfair treatment meted on our ladies, depriving them some certain rights and privileges.
I quite agree with them, I sympathize with them and I vehemently sermonize 'fairness' to all genders.
Masculinity comes with its challenges too. Against the popular believe that 'its a mans world' I wish to point out that its not all rosy for 'men'.
A teenage boy will sacrifice his strength to protect his sisters and sustain various forms of injury. If he fails to do that, the society deems him a boy girl
Daily, police arrest innocent 'men' for the crime they didn't commit. Their only crime is 'cos God created them 'male'.
Alot of them have even given their lives to it. You can imagine how many men that have been incarcerated due to indiscriminate arrest made on the streets in Nigeria just because they belong to that 'endangered' specie .
In as much as I don't want to over bloat the men narrative, I just want to emphasis that each gender comes with its challenges. Our society sometimes aren't always fair to either of the gender, we should always learn to contain the ill treatment the society presents while we anticipate a corrective measure to be effected.
African culture is rich with biased gender sentiments, no doubt.
‘Gender equity may not be in the mind of our ancestors when they structured our society, no doubt.
But, they may have gotten a clue from the Bible: when God spoke to Eve
. . . and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee (Gen.3:16b)
Thank you.
#myopinion
© Ezekute, I.A




